Well, after many, MANY views of repulsive and disturbing POF profiles, I lucked out and found what appears to be a decent guy. He has normal pictures, is gainfully employed, and didn’t ask to meet up for sex in the first email.
At first I was hesitant to even text given the large creep factor on POF. However, I was pleasantly surprised that we had nice communications. A bonus? The phone calls were even better.
He has a very nice, deep voice that is warm and friendly. Plus, he made me laugh and feel at ease, which is important. It was great he sent photos of him and his grandkids, not a D pic.
We’ve been talking/texting for the past few weeks and we’re finally meeting this weekend. Part of me is really excited and part of me is very nervous. What if he turns out to look nothing like the pictures? What if he comes across as sweet and funny over the phone but is boring and mean in person?
Based on what I’ve seen, I seriously doubt the latter will be true. I’m cautiously optimistic we will have a great time, good conversations, and hopefully, a second date!
Confused Woman! 
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